Image: Michelle Meiklejohn / FreeDigitalPhotos. How do your top 5 strengths from the Strength Finders 2.0 influence your conflict management style?īrent O’Bannon helps entrepreneurs and workplaces to grow stronger, work smarter, and live richer as the world’s 1st Gallup Certified Strengths Coach at and.What strengths and struggles do you face in your conflict management style?.How do you cope with conflict? Are you a turtle, a teddy bear, a shark, a fox, or an owl?.Some conflicts require quick solutions and this style may take too long. These parties must have high levels of communication skills and emotional intelligence. The struggle is that owls must have two willing parties to collaborate. They are not tied to their way and tend to have an open mind for pragmatic solutions that create a win-win experience. It’s Free, Easy and Loads of fun Create engaging Jeopardy-style quiz games in minutes or choose from millions of existing Jeopardy game templates. Owls can build trust, respect and deeper relationship. The 1 Jeopardy-style classroom review game now supports remote learning online. People may feel “outfoxed” and cheated by foxes. The struggles are deceptiveness and manipulation. Often the fox is able to craft intelligent intermediate solutions. Their strength is communication and a willingness to find win-win or lose-lose compromises. Sharks can escalate emotions and create barriers easily. The struggles are becoming too pushy, tactless, and hurting peoples’ feelings. A shark is a leader that can confront bullies. The strength of this style is the ability to be strong, courageous, and bring a conflict out in the open quickly. Secretly, they tend to have a low self-esteem and use likability from others as a way to build their own self-confidence. The can enable others by not allowing them to face and wrestle with conflict. The struggle of this style is that a teddy bear may be taken advantage of, becoming a doormat. They will accept blame just to bring peace to angry situations. How could you be mad at them? They want and need harmony. The strength of this style is how likeable and lovable this person is in most situations. Major conflict tends to grow worse when it isn’t addressed. The struggle with this style is the tendency to minimize, deny, and avoid conflict altogether. They are calm on the outside and help de-escalate emotions in conflict. The strength of this style is that this person can easily look past conflicts and realizes most conflicts will solve themselves. Here are some brief thoughts on the strengths and struggles of the 5 styles of dealing with conflict, adapted from Johnson, 1981. How we deal with our spouse at home is likely to be different than how we deal with our boss in the workplace. Most of us use a variety of styles depending on the person, the situation and our stress level.